Control (Psychology) Lois Lowry 1993

The Giver

The Giver
Published
Publisher
Editorial Everest, S. A.
February 19, 1993
At the age of twelve, Jonas, a young boy from a seemingly utopian, futuristic world, is singled out to receive special training from The Giver, who alone holds the memories of the true joys and pain of life.

If you haven’t read The Giver yet, I’m genuinely curious what’s kept you away—because this book, published back in 1993, has quietly become one of those rare young adult novels that actually deserves all the hype. It arrived at a time when dystopian fiction for young readers wasn’t quite the phenomenon it would later become, and Lois Lowry created something that felt genuinely dangerous and unsettling in ways that still resonate today.

The premise sounds almost too simple: a twelve-year-old boy named Jonas lives in what appears to be a perfect world. No war, no hunger, no pain, no conflict. Everything is controlled, predictable, and safe. Then Jonas is selected to become the Receiver of Memory—essentially the keeper of all human experience, the good and the bad, that his community has collectively chosen to forget. What unfolds from there is nothing short of a masterpiece in exploring what we sacrifice when we choose comfort over truth.

What makes this book so quietly devastating is how Lowry handles the revelation. She doesn’t start with explosions or obvious tyranny. Instead, she shows you this community where everything makes rational sense—where jobs are assigned based on aptitude, where colors have been eliminated to reduce frivolous choices, where emotions are medicated away. It’s chilling precisely because it’s presented as reasonable, even kind. The system wants to protect people. It wants to eliminate suffering. And somehow, that makes it more horrifying than any overtly evil dictatorship.

> The genius of The Giver lies in how it asks: Is a life without pain worth living if it also means a life without joy, without choice, without the authentic human experience?

Lowry’s writing style here is deceptively simple. The language is precise and controlled, which mirrors the world she’s created—but that simplicity makes the moments of genuine emotion hit so much harder. When Jonas begins to understand what his community has lost, when he starts experiencing color and music and real feeling for the first time, the prose doesn’t need to become flowery. The restraint is what makes it powerful.

The book won the Newbery Medal, one of the most prestigious awards in children’s literature, and for good reason. But beyond the accolades, The Giver accomplished something rarer: it started conversations that are still happening. This book sparked discussions about:

  • Social control and conformity – How do we balance safety with freedom?
  • The nature of memory and identity – Who are we without our past, good and bad?
  • The ethics of choice – Is it ever acceptable to make decisions for an entire population “for their own good”?
  • Coming of age in a controlled world – What does it mean to grow up when your society has eliminated the very experiences that help us understand ourselves?
  • Mortality, loss, and what makes life meaningful – These aren’t themes typically centered in books for young readers, but Lowry refuses to shy away

What’s remarkable is how The Giver influenced everything that came after it. You can draw a direct line from this book to the explosion of dystopian young adult fiction in the 2000s and 2010s. Authors saw what Lowry accomplished—that young readers were ready for complexity, for moral ambiguity, for questions that don’t have easy answers—and they built on that foundation. But Lowry was doing this in 1993, before it was trendy.

The narrative structure itself is worth mentioning. Lowry builds the world gradually, letting readers discover what’s strange and controlled about this community at roughly the same pace Jonas does. There’s real craftsmanship in that pacing. You don’t feel lectured to; you feel like you’re uncovering something forbidden alongside the protagonist. By the time you reach the ending—and I won’t spoil it—you’re so emotionally invested that the ambiguity of those final pages becomes unforgettable.

What continues to strike people about this book, decades after its publication, is its relevance. In our own time, with debates about technology, social media algorithms that control what we see, and the tension between security and privacy, The Giver feels almost prescient. It’s asking questions about control and information that feel increasingly urgent.

  1. The perfect entry point to dystopian fiction – Complex enough to challenge thoughtful readers, accessible enough that it works for younger audiences
  2. A masterclass in restraint – Lowry shows rather than tells, trusts readers to understand what’s disturbing about this world
  3. A book that stays with you – The ending, the themes, the questions—they linger long after you’ve finished
  4. A catalyst for conversations – It’s still taught in schools because it genuinely provokes discussion about society, ethics, and what it means to be human

If you want to understand how young adult literature can be serious, challenging, and artistically ambitious, The Giver is essential. It’s a book about memory written by an author who understands that the most powerful stories are the ones we remember, the ones that change how we think. That’s why, over thirty years after its publication, this novel still matters.

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